Blessed Alvaro del Portillo |
Fr. Francis Ongkingko, a priest of the Prelature, pens a reflection of his encounter with the recently-declared-Blessed Alvaro:
“A Teacup without Tea”
By Rev. Father Francis Ongkingko*
“You are, as
we say in Spain ,
like a teacup without tea!” remarked Bishop Álvaro del Portillo. This was his
amusing reply when he learned that I didn’t really know a single Chinese word
despite my very Chinese-sounding family name.
Back then in
1992, this sounded like a mere passing remark by Bishop Álvaro, or “the Father”
–as we familiarly and fondly call him– to lighten the conversation for his
Filipino son who was nervously wrestling with the vocabulary and grammar of
spoken Spanish.
It would only
be years later, after reading a more recent and detailed biography of Father
Álvaro, that I would realize how intensely he had set his heart and mind on the
expansion of Opus Dei in Asia. Knowledge of either Mandarin or Cantonese was indispensable to begin and incorporate oneself in that vast continent thirsty
for God. Thus, his passing commentary was something both serious and urgent.
It wasn’t
actually my first time to meet Father Álvaro. I was fortunate enough to greet
him personally when he visited the Philippines in 1987. I had just known Opus Dei then.
Listening to him opened many horizons, especially the mission that we, his
children in the Philippines ,
had in the whole of Asia .
He also
reminded us about our role in the Church, as we had to be vital supports for
the Pope, the Bishops and our other faithful. His personal meetings with then
Pope John Paul II helped us to pray more and accompany closely the Holy Father.
I remember
one particular anecdote about a late afternoon audience he had with Saint John
Paul II. Noticing that the Pope arrived very tired and was dragging his feet,
Father Álvaro said with filial concern, “Holy Father, you are very tired.” John
Paul II promptly replied, “If I’m not tired at this hour of the day, then I’m
not doing my job.” This and many other stories from Father Álvaro filled us
with a richer outlook in our faith and also with greater optimism to carry out
our apostolic mission.
I now return
to my story about the empty teacup. Not only because that was perhaps my last
encounter with Father Álvaro, but because it now affords me with a new lesson.
Indeed, it
would have been wonderful if my ‘teacup had some tea’ but learning Mandarin may
not be one of the chapters in my life. I realized, however, whether one knows
Chinese or not, we all have –as Father Álvaro had taught and lived all his
life– the serious obligation to fill ourselves to the brim. This is by carrying
out the simplest duties at hand, where God expects us to serve him, with
constant love and sacrifice.
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*Father Francis Ongkingko is a priest of
the Prelature of Opus Dei who resides in Manila .
St. John Paul II and Blessed Alvaro during the latter's episcopal ordination |
And here's a short video about the miracle concerning a Chilean baby, attributed to Blessed Alvaro's intercession and which led to his beatification. The boy -- now 11-year-old Jose Ignacio Ureta -- was at the beatification rites with his parents.